Checking In on Past Ministry Relationships

2 Timothy 4:10 (ESV)  For Demas, in love with this present world, has deserted me…

student-ministryWhat happens when those you love  and have personally discipled in ministry desert the faith?  They’ve deserted Jesus, the Bible, participation in the local church and have fallen fully in love with the world?  What happens when what was once a growing, maturing, follower of Jesus is now agnostic, unrepentant and completely uninterested in the things of God?

I was a youth pastor for 6 years and it breaks my heart (almost daily) to see some of the things on my former students’ Facebook profiles.  The photos they post.  The places they go.  The things they are most proud of, such as their ability to consume way too much alcohol or have victory in another sexual conquest.  From having children out of wedlock, to homosexuality, to marriage and divorce, to the use of most filthy language imaginable – all waved loud and proud in full view of the digital public.

Some of these are students who I took on mission trips all over the world.  Some are the ones I witnessed boldly sharing the Gospel with their lost friends and family.  Some are those who led our weekly worship service or taught others in student-led Bible studies.   Young men and women who had the most genuine, authentic, growing faith in Christ who now show no evidence or fruit of that faith whatsoever (well, at least not on Facebook).

This breaks my heart.  So much so I cannot be their FB friend or have to remove their statuses in my news feed.  I simply can’t handle it.  It hurts my soul and makes me entirely miserable.

I am certain this is nothing new to me.  All pastors/ministers/youth leaders/spiritual mentors feel this broken-heartedness at some point.  They hear reports or run into someone several years removed and they can’t quite believe their ears.  The emotions run the gamut from disappointment and anger in the person to feeling like a ministry failure to utter shock and dismay – “How could this happen to YOU?”

In truth, I am not sure how to manage these feelings.  All I can do is trust in the promises of God.  God who draws even the most prodigal son or daughter back home.  God who offers redemption and forgiveness to those who ask.  God who is long-suffering and patient with all sinners, including me, and who wants all of His children to walk rightly before Him.

I can trust in the Holy Spirit of God who dwells within the hearts of those truly saved, who convicts, reminds and speaks to the heart of even the most wayward.

My hope is that I will be able to join the elder John in saying  “I have no greater joy than to hear that my [former students] are walking in the truth” 3 John 1:4  (ESV).  However, I have to set boundaries in my life so that I am not discouraged on a daily basis.  This probably means I have to remove one of my former students, who I still love and adore, from my FB friends.

Isn’t it amazing how the Digital Age has changed ministry forever?

The Curtain Call on Christian Pageants : Where Will Christian Dramatic Art Go Next?

roman costume

Hail Caesar!

The Easter pageant.   The Christmas pageant.  The random youth musical.  More and more Christian pageants and dramatic presentations are finding their way into a back church closet full of plywood sets, drab costumes, and fake trees.  They are probably not coming out of that closet for a while.  Even the big boys of Christian pageantry, like Louisville’s Southeast Christian Church Easter Play, have called it curtains on their annual performance.  The only thing still happening are live, drive-thru nativities at Christmas time, which are far from being called acting.  Standing in the cold is more like it.

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The Definition of Manhood

Why curtains on pageants?  I like to believe Mel Gibson had something to do with it.  When The Passion of the Christ released in 2004, all Christian Easter pageants looked like small-scale, comical, badly directed street theater for amateurs.  There is no way a church could ever compete with the intense violence, imagery and story-telling genius of Gibson’s production, even if theologically adrift.

A Roman solider in plastic chest armor (complete with 6-pack abs, mind you) wearing Birkenstock sandals is not going to cut it anymore with an audience who had seen something as graphic as Gibson’s Passion.

Then came The Nativity movie (2006) which actual had lowly, poor, skinny shepherds with missing teeth and scraggly beard and ethnically-diverse wise men wearing proper vestments for middle eastern astrologers.  Herod the Great looked like a real king living in a real time overseeing huge construction projects.

The Christmas pageant at your church with Mary, Joseph and baby-doll Jesus in a manger, while cute and sentimental, looked like something from A Charlie Brown Christmas, with no insult toward Charlie Brown Christmas.  Linus’ speech still captures my heart and attention.

So my question is : Where will Christian dramatic art go next?  Is there a place for drama, theater, and visually-engaging acting in the evangelical church?

Could our direction be sermon-informed, life-situational sketches which exploded in the seeker-sensitive movement?  I really do not see those returning soon. Young pastors and younger attenders (especially those from the reformed persuasion) see these as silly and misguided.  However, comedy is still well received in this delivery style.

Could our direction be children performing biblical scenes in costume in preparation for a particular message or season within the church?  Possibly, but children’s and youth choir are dying faster than visitation programs.  Still children are viewed cute and innocent.  A harsh, unforgiving audience toward adults acting in a pageant are refreshingly hospitable toward children (because that is their kid and grandkid up there on stage).

Could our direction be church-based actors creating short films, which are then shown as transitional pieces in worship?  Highly possible.  The Skit Guys are moving more and more toward thought-provoking, message-instilling shorter pieces which are downloaded and shown to illustrate a particular golden nugget of truth.  For churches to do this, they must have high quality acting, filming, and editing.  There is too much out there online that is well planned and produced to compete with something home grown.

What else is coming?  What else is shaping this particular form of Christian art and expression?  I really don’t see much else on the horizon.  Maybe some of my creatives and Creative Arts Pastors can help me out here.  What are you seeing or using that is making a connection in the dramatic arts?

Decision Making and the SBC Related School

Denominationally affiliated colleges and universities are slightly different than secular, state-owned colleges and universities when it comes to the distribution of campus power and the process of decision making.

The following graphics are from my Ed.D. dissertation entitled Models of Academic Governance in Southern Baptist Related Colleges and Universities (2009) which shows in rank order who holds the most and least power within SBC-related versus secular, state-owned institutions.

For SBC-related schools…

power holders

For state-owned institutions…

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Three key observations:

1.  SBC-related schools have denominational leaders, which are obviously not present in secular, state-owned institutions.  Denominational leaders are in the middle of the pack in institutional power and decision making.

2.  Legislators and federal/state governments are at the bottom of SBC-related schools, but are obviously much more involved in the secular, state-owned institutions.  This makes perfect since state funding and accountability are directly routed to state-owned universities.

3.  The president and trustees/governors/regents are always at the top in both categories.  The non-administrative faculty are in the middle for both categories.

Conclusions:

The conclusion of my dissertation is that with a slight exception here and there, SBC-related colleges and universities follow very similar decision making paths as secular, state-owned institutions.  There is not much deviation between the two rank orders.   I contend that this makes perfect, tangible sense because of regional accreditation issues, federal regulations for all degree conferring institutions, and the need to be competitive in the higher education market, which is full of all sorts of players – public, private, for-profit, non-profit, online, international.

However, I do believe and can confirm from personal experience, that SBC-related institutions are unique in wanting to balance the influence and partnership with denominational leaders.  The connection between churches and SBC-related schools is a needed relationship.

As there is diversity within SBC churches and their individual relationships with the state and national denomination groups with some closer, some further away, so goes the SBC-related college and university, some closer, some further away.  The reason for the variance is the same as with the churches – leadership, history, future vision, priorities, and frankly investment dollars.

May 2012 to May 2013 : A Ministry Look-Back

mayEvery May, at the beginning of my summer break, I try to stop and look back over the past year and reflect on the opportunities the Lord has opened for me to do what I love and was called to do.  This particular 12 months has been a little bit of everything.  Ministry opportunities have flowed from all sides.

From…

  • Traveling to Greece, Turkey, and Switzerland with the Apostles & Epistles Tour.  You can’t beat teaching Revelation 1 on the Island of Patmos overlooking John’s cave.  Indescribable.
  • Finishing one interim pastorate at Lancaster Bapt Church and beginning and finishing another at Living Grace Church.
  • Training young pastors for LifeWay’s CentriKid Camps and then being a camp pastor myself for a couple weeks.
  • Preaching in various pulpits around KY like Corinth BC in London, Immanuel, Pioneer, Hopewell and Bruner’s Chapel BC all in Harrodsburg, Simpsonville BC, and First Bapt Clarksville, TN.
  • Leading training workshops for Eubank BC, Beechland BC, Pioneer BC and First Bapt Clarksville.
  • Teaching breakout sessions at ministry conferences – the CU Transformational Church Summit, the KBC Seminary for a Day, and CU Louisville’s Contagious Churches & Leaders.
  • Serving alongside the tireless LifeWay VBSi & Preview Team as a speaker & breakout session leader in 4 cities: Ridgecrest, NC, Fort Worth, TX, Nashville, TN, and Kissimmee, FL.  This opportunity has been one I will never forget.
  • Great times of sharing with my students outside of class like doing the DNow Team training, teaching alongside Jennifer for BCM about relationships, pre-marriage counseling in our home with Chris Price and Anna Step, witnessing Jacob Howard, one of my guys, ordained to the Gospel ministry, and taking a group of 13 to LifeWay’s headquarters in Nashville for CU Day at LifeWay.
  • All the while completing two amazing semesters with my students in class after class.  Year 5 was my best in class teaching year so far.

It is simply amazing for me to see what God has done in my life, if I would make myself available to Him and His purposes.  As I reflect back, I am overwhelmed by God’s grace and kindness toward me and my family.  This is way more than I could have ever imagined back in 1996 when I surrendered to the call of ministry.  God has taken my 3 loaves and 2 fish and multiplied them time and time again.

Where will God lead from May 2013 to May 2014…who knows?  But wherever He leads, I will follow.

The Should-Be Motto of All Church Personnel Teams

golden ruleMy thesis:  Luke 6:31 should be the motto, slogan, vision statement and/or basic foundational rule for every church personnel-related issue.  If we would follow Luke 6:31 in our church personnel matters, I believe we would have longer tenures in ministry, happier pastoral staff, and better church administrative relationships.

Luke 6:31 in 3 different translation:  And as you wish that others would do to you, do so to them (ESV).  And just as you want people to treat you, treat them in the same way (NAS).  Do to others as you would have them do to you (NIV).

Having served in a variety of positions on church staff, some part-time, some full-time, in nearly every position except music, I have been in many personnel committee and leadership meetings (with elders and deacons) where personnel matters arise.  I have seen it all.

If we would mandate Luke 6:31 in our dealing with our church staff members, I believe we would be far better off and far more functional in kingdom business.  Luke 6:31 applies to every aspect of personnel leadership.  Consider a few examples.

Compensate others as you would like to be compensated.  Staff need not be starved nor overly fed.  However, if you believe you and your work deserves a respectable salary, comparable with others in your peer group, based on job performance and expertise, then compensate your church staff likewise.  By low-balling them, you are not teaching them humility and contentment, you are telling them they are not worth that much in the big scheme of things.

Reward others as you would like to be rewarded.   I know, I know, our reward is in Christ and spending eternity with him in heaven.  I could not agree more.  However, if you like being rewarded for a job well done in your field, when you go the extra mile toward a successful project, why not reward your staff with something in kind.  A gift card.  An extra vacation day.  An expanded allowance for clothing, books, or conferences.  A little pat on the back can be a great motivator.

Evaluate others as you would like to be evaluated.  No one likes to be evaluated, but everyone needs it…and should appreciate it if it is done well.  So how do you like to be evaluated in your job?  Consistently.  Fairly.  Accurately.  Sharing both areas of strengths and areas of needed improvement.  Then receiving amply time, resources, and encouragement to enhance those strengths and improve the weaknesses.  Sounds pretty fair right?  Why not extend the same grace to your church staff members.  They will be blessed by your investment in them and will be more effective in their service unto Christ.

Terminate others as you would like to be terminated.  Is there such a thing as a way you want to be terminated?  No job or position is permanently and perpetually safe forever.  The same goes for ministry positions.  Therefore as you would like to be let go, treat your exiting staff in the same fashion.   Whatever you would like to be given, extend those same graces to them such as severance, job placement assistance, moving expenses, or time on the clock to look elsewhere.  Honesty in explaining the situation to the church, not sweeping issues under the rug is also a very important step.  No one wins with deception and lies.

When Jesus gave us the golden rule, I don’t think he anticipated us forgetting it so easily.  Let’s put it back in, especially in our dealings with each other in ministry.

My Experience as a Campbellsvillian

Teaching in Druien Hall.

Rampant news has been swirling – some true, some false – about my alma mater and employer Campbellsville University with specific attention directed toward my area the CU School of Theology.

I have not had any desire to pour more fuel on this raging fire and have actually encouraged my students to stay out of the fray, however, I have been encouraged to speak about my experience at CU as a student back in the 90′s in the School of Theology.

I offer three truths about my alma mater and school.

1.  As a student, this place changed my life forever by exposing me to Christ, to his calling for my life, to the truthfulness of Scripture, to the ministry of serving others as unto the Lord, to the task of taking the Gospel to the ends of the earth, and to the role of loving people who are from every Christian tradition.  As I had the opportunity to serve Christ in closed countries, in major urban centers, and down dirt paths, I learned that you shouldn’t get too bothered about who is a Methodist and who is a Baptist.  You are just happy to serve alongside people who, like you, love Jesus and want to tell others about Him.

2.  As a student, I was trained by great men and women of God who loved Jesus, His Word, the Gospel and the mission of the church.  Faithful men like Dr. Ted Taylor who has served 40+ years in local church ministry and Dr. John Hurtgen whose passion for the New Testament and Christian fellowship are as evident today as they were back then.  Also outstanding Christian women and scholars like Dr. Paula Qualls who loved the Old Testament more than anyone I’ve ever met and showed me how to love it as well.

3.  As a student, I formed lifelong friendships with many brothers and sisters in Christ who are now serving around the world as missionaries and in our nation as pastors and ministers.  These friendships continue to model one of the School of Theology core values: partners in enduring fellowship.

Lastly, I want all to know that I came to faith in Jesus through the ministry of a KBC church in Lewisport, KY.  I was baptized, discipled and called to ministry in a KBC church.  I have served on two KBC church staffs.  I have been an interim pastor for three KBC churches.  I have four CP-supported theological degrees – one from CU, two from SWBTS and one from SBTS.  I am a Southern Baptist and KY Baptist through and through.

I believe the Bible is true.  I believe the Gospel is the only means of salvation.  I believe that my role as a man, husband, father, pastor, and professor is to offer and explain this glorious Gospel to every person I meet.   These biblical convictions have never been questioned or prevented while attending, or now while teaching, at CU.  They have only been encouraged and enhanced.  I have a platform that most pastors never have.  I get to teach unbelieving young men and women the Gospel in class every day and they have to come and listen.  This is a wonderful mission.

I am proud to be a small part of the CU story.  I love my alma mater and employer.

An Open Letter to Living Grace Church : He Who Began

The following is an open letter to the men and women, college students, teenagers, boys and girls of Living Grace Church, Campbellsville, KY, a church I dearly love and treasure.  This is my prayer for you.

Dear Living Grace Church,

Philippians 1:6  I am assured of this, that he who began a good work in you will bring it to completion at the day of Jesus Christ.

I am assured of this, that He  I am assured that He, God is with you.  I am assured that He, God dwells among you.  I am assured that He, God is near you.  I am assured that He, God is working in you to make you what He wants you to be.  Will you let He, God do more?

I am assured of this, that He who began a good work in you…  He who began this work is still at work.  He who began this work is not finished with this piece of art quite yet.  He who began this work of molding, shaping, chiseling, adding and removing wants to continue to mold, shape, chisel, add and remove until He approves.  Will you let Him work more?

I am assured of this, that He who began a good work in you will bring it to completion…  Take heart, you are not complete yet.  You are not perfected yet.  You are not polished and shined up yet, ready for display.  You are still in the completion process and will be for quite some time.  Please my dear friends don’t hinder the completion process, instead beg God to cut deeper, hammer harder, bolt tighter, paint brighter until He decides when you are ready.  Will you let Him complete more?

I am assured of this, that He who began a good work in you will bring it to completion at the day of Christ Jesus.  Full completion ultimately awaits the coming of Jesus Christ.  Ultimately the incomplete bride desperately awaits the coming, glorious Groom.  The longer we wait, the more time that passes, the more our longings for Him increase.  But until then, will you let God do more?

To you my brothers and sisters in Christ, it has been my joy and honor to be your Transitional Pastor.  As we continue to live as neighbors in this little community called Campbellsville/Taylor County, let us look forward to the day when we will live as eternal neighbors in God’s holy presence forever.

Grace and peace,Shane

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