My Last Mid-Week Article to LBC

Copied from LBC Mid-Week Informer May 7, 2012

 Dear Friends and Family of LBC,

With a heavy heart but a rejoicing spirit, I offer to you my last Mid-Week Informer article.  My final day as interim pastor of LBC will be Sunday, May 27, and since I will be out for two weeks on the study tour of Greece and Turkey, this will be my final weekly installment.

When I arrived back in August 2011, only 10 months ago, I found a church in need of love and care.  From all accounts, emotions were raw, tension was thick and conflict was brimming on all sides.  Walt Browning and Bill Oliver tried to prepare me for the difficult situation the church was facing.  I sensed I was coming into a battlefield. 

Yet when I arrived, I found something very different.  There was an immediate connection between us.  I didn’t find a church engaged in battle, I found a people wanting to love their leader.  I was told by Walt early on, “Our people want to love their pastor and want to be loved by their pastor.”  Those words became the hallmark for what I believed God was calling me to do at LBC – simply love the people. 

And you, my dear brothers and sisters, returned that love immediately back upon me and my family.  There wasn’t a Sunday or Wednesday that went by where I didn’t “feel the love” in our midst.  In our times of worship, in prayer, in Bible study, in meetings, when eating around the table, with the children, the teenagers, the senior adults, the various Sunday school classes, with the staff, the deacons, the ministry teams, everyone showed us amazing, abundant love. 

I’ve often been reminded of Paul’s words to the churches in Galatia when thinking about you, my LBC family.  He writes, For I testify to you that, if possible, you would have gouged out your eyes and given them to me.” (Gal 4:15b)  I think you might have done the same for me if I asked.

Deep love and kindred spirits are hard to come by these days.  For that I am so grateful to have shared this time with you.  I will look back on our Wednesday night studies with sincere fondness and a smile on my face for every time I made you do something new.  I will cherish the times I spent with Pastor Nehemiah & Stephen on our Google+ video conference staff meetings.  I will remember with joy walking up and down the aisles on Sunday mornings talking with you, shaking hands, asking how your week has gone.  I will continue to celebrate the increase in giving and attendance, the number of children baptized, and the explosion of community awareness and outreach.

Pastor Harold & his family are going to be so blessed because I know you will extend to them the same love you’ve extended to our family. I love each of you and will be praying God’s best for you in the days to come.

Grace and peace,   Shane

Saying Goodbye to LBC a Second Time

Lewisport BC - LBC 1

My home church was LBCLewisport Baptist Church.  I love my 1st faith family at LBC with all my heart.  They led me to Christ, grew me up in Jesus, and adopted me as one of their sons in the faith.  I am, and will always be, eternally grateful for the people and minister of LBC.

Lancaster BC - LBC 2

But over this past year, I got a chance to meet and love another LBCLancaster Baptist Church.  My new faith family at LBC 2 has become so precious to me. 

They allowed me to lead them in worship, teach them from God’s word, challenge them to lean on the power of God, and reach their community in new ways.  They opened their hearts to me and for a second time I was adopted as a LBC son.

I will officially be completing my fourth interim pastorate later this month.  Each has been a new experience for me.  Living Grace Church in 2008 was all about learning how pastoral transitions work.  Parkway Bapt Church in 2009 taught me what it means to teach on a larger scale to wider diversity of people.  Bethany Bapt Church in 2010-11 stretched me personally and spiritually.  I always thought ministry in a major city would be easy because of all the people and needs, but it was much harder than I expected.

And now Lancaster Bapt. Church.  LBC 2 taught me it is possible to deeply love a people in a short amount of time.  I learned that I really love ministry when people love to be loved by their pastor.  I have teared up more than once thinking about these fine brothers and sisters in Christ who I’ve only known for 9 months, but feels like we’ve been friends for a lifetime. 

Thank you LBC 2.  Your new pastor is going to be awesome.  Your ministry in the future is going to be bright.  You will always hold a very special place in my heart.

Portrait of Family Ministry

One of my students wanted to take a picture supposedly showing a portrait of family ministry.  With the husband leading the wife and children.

Here is the Garrison version.  Play close attention to the superhero on one side and the stick-figure on the other.  Who’s leading who?

And in BW.

Bahamas Honeymoon 2.0 – Part 2

KBC Imagine Conference 2012 – ParaKlete Your Kids

This is the message from the KY Bapt. Conv. Imagine Preschool & Children’s Ministry entitled “ParaKlete Your Kids.”

Winter Ministry Opportunities

With the first winter snow still on the ground, I thought I would give everyone an update of some ministry opportunities for Jennifer and I over the next few months.  God keeps opening doors for us to serve Him in a variety ways throughout His kingdom.

@Campbellsville University.  Of course, I am teaching a full load this time including classes in Leading Small Groups, Children’s Ministry, and Gospel & Postmodernity.  My Small Groups class includes 17 students who will each be leading a small group of their own.  The potential is to see over 100 student discipled in a network of small groups based out of our class.

Jennifer is also teaching Women in Ministry this semester as an adjunct instructor.  She has 22 in her class which is the most this class has ever had.  She gets back to her Ph.D. course work in February.

@KyBaptist Imagine Conference.  February 10-11, I will be one of the key note speakers at the 2nd Imagine Preschool and Children’s Ministry Conference at Parkway Bapt Church in Bardstown.  Last year there was over 500 people in attendance from around the state.

@BCM Valentine’s Service.  Jennifer and I get to share with the Bapt. Campus Ministry students this semester on biblical manhood and womenhood during their V-day worship service.  This will be the first time I’ve been asked to speak to a BCM group since we’ve been back to CU.  Very excited.

@Lowell Avenue Baptist Church.  In March, I will be leading an one-day Bible Study Teacher training event at Lowell Ave. BC, a church here in Campbellsville.  A great church led by Pastor Dave Walters and Assoc. Pastor Trent Creason.

@Lancaster Baptist Church.  I continue serving as the interim pastor of LBC.  We have agreed as a church to walk together in the 90 Day Vision which attempts to make an impact on every generation in Lancaster and Garrard Co. in the next 90 days (Jan. 8 till April 8).  We are praying for over 600 in attendance on Easter weekend, which would be the largest attendance in more than 8 years.  God is able to do abundantly more than we could think or ask (Eph. 3:20).

Finally, in March Jennifer and I will be celebrating our 10th anniversary with a special trip.  Our anniversary is actually on April 6, but that is on Good Friday.  Not the best day to travel.  So during spring break, we will take some time to thank God for 10 great years together and rekindle our relationship with a no-kids trip to a warm location.

2012 Thru the Front View Mirror

All leaders want to look forward and see what’s coming on the horizon.  Every year I write 5 to 7 goals for myself in several categories: spiritual, financial, marriage & family, career, personal.  I like to think, envision and dream about the future.  If you don’t have a target, you’ll hit it everytime. 

For 2011, I met 5 of my 7 goals (71.4%).  Not too bad.  Those were:

  1. Spiritual:  Finish Bethany Bapt Church well.
  2. Financial:  Wipe out medical and credit card debt and pay for everyone’s (Jennifer, Isaac and Ethan) school tuition in cash.
  3. Parenting:  Build the boys a tree fort and have a camp out.
  4. Personal:  Get below 170 lbs for the first time since we were married.
  5. Marital:  Determine Jennifer’s career re-entry plan.

I didn’t complete two goals: 1) career – find a publisher for Theology 4 Kids (my book).  I was turned down 3x’s.  Stink!  Or 2) financial - buy a new car in cash.  Both vehicles are still running fine and didn’t need replacing, which I am very thankful for.

So what’s on the horizon for 2012.  Here’s the list. 

  1. Spiritual:  Finish Lancaster Bapt well.  Ending an interim pastorate is like landing a plane on an air craft carrier.  You have to do it perfectly or a lot of people get hurt.  This will be my 4th landing.
  2. Financial:  Knock out a huge chunk of Jennifer’s Ph.D. tuition, maybe the whole thing in one year.  That would means a lot of extra work.  Summer school here I come.
  3. Marital:  Celebrate our 10 year anniversary in a big way.  Can we say Honeymoon 2.0?
  4. Parenting:  Read all the Gospels to my boys.  We are halfway thru the 7 Chronicles of Narnia books and it is going really well.
  5. Career:  Find a publisher and get a contract on the book.  Gotta keep pushing and seeking the right fit for this project.
  6. Personal:  Travel on the Apostles & Epistles Tour to Turkey & Greece.  This will complete my biblical lands cycle (e.g., Israel, Egypt, Rome, Italy, and Jordan).
  7. Personal:  Select a charity and get involved at a higher level.  Preferably something the whole family can volunteer in and support from our community.

What’s your goals for 2012?

2011 from the Rear View Mirror

Usually I dislike reading The Year in Review.  Whether on TV or in magazines, I don’t find myself wanting to read what was hot and what was not.  I prefer setting goals for the upcoming year and moving forward.  But 2011 has been pretty cool for the Garrison family, so I would look back and look ahead.

In January, I spent time in Amman, Jordan teaching teachers which was a great honor.  Jordan has quite a few biblical locations which means plenty of sight-seeing.  It also meant spending some time with a dear friend and brother.

In the winter and early spring, Jennifer got to teach her first two college courses at CU and began the admission process for her Ph.D.  After years of being a full-time stay-at-home mom, we came to terms with her future career plan, once the boys are in school.  She loves teaching and loved the college environment, so doctoral work became her goal.  She got into the Ph.D. program in Family at the Southern Baptist Theological Seminary.

In July, I finished being the interim pastor of Bethany Baptist Church in Louisville and in August became the interim pastor of Lancaster Baptist Church in Garrard Co.  God keeps providing ministry opportunities in strategic churches where I can, hopefully, be a blessing in times of transition.

In August, Jennifer started school and everything changed at our house.  Her work demanded an intense regiment of reading, studying, and writing.  Our weekly schedule shifted to include multiple “Boy Conferences.”  This is where mom is in my office (which she calls the chamber of secrets) and we boys entertain ourselves.  I became Boy Conference president in October.  Ethan did a great job as president last year. 

Also in August, I received the Non-Tenured Faculty of the Year award from CU.  I couldn’t believe I won.  These first 3 years have been so amazing.  Additionally, I was placed on the SACS 10 Year Reaffirmation team, which means great job security for the next 4 years.

Finally in August, we also had both of our boys in part-time school.  Isaac as a half-a-day kindergartener and Ethan as a 2-day per week glowworm.  Both at the Campbellsville Christian Church Center for Christian Education.

In September & October, it was all soccer.  We learned Isaac is pretty good and is built for the game – good speed, good accuracy, leadership in competition.  Ethan continues to show great skill and ability in all things athletic.  He will be a force next year.

In December, we celebrate that Isaac has read 150 books so far this year.  He is seeking a new school record of 243.  And Ethan has been on the green light all semester long, which is a miracle in and of itself.  Jennifer has made it through her first full semester in flying colors and will be teaching “Women in Ministry” this Spring at CU.  My interim at Lancaster BC is going very well.  Work at CU could not be any better.

God is faithful.  Serving Him is a joy and honor.  10 years of marriage with hardly no disruption.  Two great kids.  We are blessed beyond measure.

Merry Christmas from the Garrison’s

From our family to yours, we wish you a Merry Christmas.  And no, I am not the Grinch.

Ethan’s 4th Birthday Party

Listen carefully as Ethan wishes for invisible powers as he blows out the candle.  What else would a super hero need for his 4th birthday.

My Testimony to Faith in Christ

This is my story to coming to faith in Jesus Christ.  I am eternally thankful to my home church, Lewisport Baptist Church, and the faithful men and women who led me to Jesus.

Jennifer Swoons Over Sam

My wife hasn’t smiled this much since our wedding.  I think she was in la-la land with Mr. Sam Bowie, former UK great and NBA All-Star.  I didn’t get jealous, I mean,  come on he’s a legend.

The Plight of the Spiritual Orphan

Over the past months, I have been asked to speak several times on the plight of the spiritual orphan.  We are in a time in which Evangelical Christianity in America is rapidly thinking and considering the care of orphans at an amazing rate.  Adoption, both domestic and international, have exploded.  Being foster parents to hurting or abandoned children on the rise.  Churches are beginning funds specifically to help families meet the cost of adoption. 

Believe me when I say I am thrilled this movement is happening.  But that is not orphan-care I am talking about.  I am not speaking of literal orphans, as in the ones living in orphanages or in the foster care system.  These children must be carried for, but these are not the ones I am trying to call Christians and churches to remember.

I am pleading for the spiritual orphan.  Spiritual orphans are boys, girls, and teenagers who live in homes with NO believing parents.  Neither mom nor dad, or mom and step-dad, or dad and girlfriend, none of them are believers.  These children have NO biblical, spiritual, or Christ-centered influence in their lives.  They live in every city, town, community and neighborhood.  While there are churches on nearly every corner, these children are slowing being forgotten. 

The culture says we can’t bus them in anymore or have people cruise the apartment complex and pick them up and bring them to church.  Churches and caring Christians have to have permission slips and medical release forms for everything.  There is a real fear of child predators and abduction among most families.  Even a backyard Bible club in a neighborhood is viewed as some suspect cult trying to indoctrinate unknowing children.

Because of these cultural dynamics and a thousand others, more and more children and teenagers are being forgotten.  It becomes too hard to find a way to connect and reach them for Christ.  Churches tend to only want children and students who have believing parents.

But we must reach them for Christ sake.  And when they do come to faith in the Lord Jesus, we must care for the spiritual orphan as our own family.  They are our adopted little brothers or little sisters in Christ.  They have no mom or dad to care for their spiritual needs.  They have no parent to pray with them or read them a Bible story.  They have you!  You, their church family.  Their older brothers and sisters in Christ.  Their only Christian family.

Please, please remember the spiritual orphan.  I was one of them.

Give JRose a Follow

My amazing wife, Jennifer Rose, has been blogging for a while at http://jenniferrosegarrison.wordpress.com.  The title of her blog is Fun Times in Familyville.

If you love her and our family, you need to read her most recent blog post.  It is a very personal and honest retelling of a physical battle she experienced last year.  I witnessed her battle on the outside, but this is her story from the inside.  Definitely worth a read and a follow.

Blog Sabbatical Over

My official month long sabbatical from the blog is now over.  I am back and blogging away.  It was good to be gone for a while, but even more enjoyable to get back in the swing of things.  I hope my regular readers haven’t given up on me.  I just needed a bit of a break as the new semester kicked off.

But to give a quick update on the fam.

Starting back at the end of August, I became the interim pastor of Lancaster Baptist Church in Garrard Co.  This is the fourth interim pastorate I have been asked to serve.  LBC is awesome.  The congregation is very loving and community-oriented.  In just 7 weeks, we’ve already had a huge 9-11 service for local police, firefighters, EMS and first responders.  Last Sunday we hosted nearly 100 fall athletes and marching band members from Garrard Co. High School and Middle School.  I anticipate being at LBC through the year and possibly some into 2012 as they search for a new pastor.

Jennifer started something significant in August as well.  She officially became a Ph.D. student at The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary.  She is completing her Ph.D. in Family Ministry.  This has been a great shift in our family as she needs a lot of time throughout the week to study and do homework.  It will take her about 4 years total to complete the program, but I am thrilled for her.  She continues to be an adjunct at CU.

The boys are doing great and playing lots of soccer.  Isaac is dominating his Under 6 league having scored nearly 30 goals in 4 games.  He is faster than lightning.  Ethan’s Little Feet Soccer just finished this week.  He will be ready for U6 next year.  The Garrison boys might be a force to reckon with in Campbellsville Youth Soccer for years to come.

Thanks for checking in.  I got some posts in the hopper just waiting to come out.

The Delightful Cooking Show

This is how we celebrate Labor Day by making our own cooking show.  Buttery yellow cupcakes with chocolate icing and festive holiday sprinkles.

Isaac Reads His First Book

I know he is only 6 (as of last week) but reading your first book in a family of book nerds is pretty important.

Isaac’s 6th Birthday

They Are Not Bible Characters

You would never hear a Social Studies teacher speak about George Washington or Benjamin Franklin as characters from the American Revolution.  No teacher would ever say Abraham Lincoln or Fredrick Douglas were inspirational characters from the Civil War.  Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. was certaintly not a character in the struggle for social justice in 1960′s. 

They Are Not Bible Characters

So why then do teachers of the Bible, especially when teaching children, speak of Abraham, Moses, Elijah, Daniel, even Jesus, as characters in the Old or New Testaments.  Friends, they were not characters, they were real people.

Hansel and Gretel are characters.  Harry Potter and Ron Weasley are characters.  Humpty Dumpty and all the king’s horses and men are characters. 

John the Baptist is not a character.  Jonah the prophet is not a character.  The Apostle Paul was quite a character in the metaphorical sense, but not in the literal sense.  Each of these men walked, breathed, and acted in a real world.  They are historial, not fictional. 

I believe Christian parents and teachers must change our language when teaching the Bible, especially to children.  Our children are attempting to form their own understanding of what is truthful and what is fiction.  Because of child-like faith, and what I believe is God’s unique design in kids, they see the Bible as something different than storybooks in their bedroom.  Therefore, we as teachers and parents must respond with appropriate language to solidfy the truthfulness of the Bible and the reality of the people in the Bible.

We must remember that the men, women, teenagers and children found on the pages of Scripture are not storybook characters living in a land far, far away.  Each one lived in a real time, in a real place, and the details of their lives reported in Scripture are real, not make-believe.

We have to remember these are not the tales of the Easter Bunny or Tooth Fairy.  This is the truth-filled, reliable account of God’s redemptive history in His created world.  Nothing make-believe about that.

A Call to Garrard County

This Sunday (August 21st), I have the great honor of preaching a trial sermon to become the interim pastor of Lancaster Baptist Church in Garrard County.  I am so excited about this possibility and opportunity to serve an excellent church with a passion for the Gospel and mission to reach people for Jesus. 

This interim will be slightly different than the other three I’ve been involved with.  This will be a 2-day a week experience, instead of the Sunday-only setups before.  If called, I will teach the Wednesday evening small group for adults and be available to work with staff and leadership groups before or after that meeting.  On Sunday, I will preach the Sunday morning service and be available to meet with deacons or the search committee as needed. 

I will be surrounded by an outstanding staff of brother-pastors: Associate Pastor Michael York, Worship Pastor Nehemiah Wilkinson, and Youth Pastor Stephen Brogli.  These men are full devoted to the Lord and He is using them greatly in His kingdom work.

The vote will be at the end of the Sunday morning worship service.  If affirmed and called, I will begin in full on Sunday, August 28th.  I am so thankful for the local church and the small part Jesus has called me to play in serving His bride.

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